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Spot the red flags. Love yourself first.

When you give everything and get little back, Connie's lived lessons help you see clearly and choose yourself.

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You were never meant to give it all away.

  • + RED FLAGS
  • + GIVING LESS
  • + LOVING YOURSELF
  • + GROWING WITH GOD
  • + SEEING CLEARLY

Connie, known as Beautiful, gave all of herself away. She learned the hard way to stop, to love herself, to see the red flags instead of refusing to, and to grow with God. This advisor is built from those lessons, and every answer speaks in her voice alone.

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Sample answer

A situation, as someone might write it: My friend only calls when she needs something. Am I wrong to feel used?

You are not wrong to feel used.

Look at who shows up when you need nothing from them.

Giving is a gift. It is not a debt.

You can stay kind and still stop handing over all of you.

A sample only. Your answer is written for the situation you describe.

How it works

  1. 1Describe what happened, in your own words.
  2. 2Read a full written answer that names the red flags.
  3. 3Choose what you give next.
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